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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 13:35

How does one succeed in life?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

What are the pros and cons of living in Male, Maldives?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do women lack the mental strength to succeed at STEM? There seems to be few women at STEM and more women leave STEM after a time of working at it. How can it be just sexism if women aren't banned from entering?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why is my ex mad I moved on when he dumped me?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can the democrats say Mr. Trump is bad when he is already fixing this country again and he's not even president yet?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Is Daenerys Targaryen really the most beautiful woman, or is everyone saying that just to flatter her?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Ask yourself:

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If you could go back and rewrite the Legend of Korra, what would you change, and why?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why was Nietzsche against essentialism?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How do you weigh in on the Vance-couch conversation?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What made you feel disgusted today?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Is Melania still angry that she failed as a model? Why is she so cold and hostile? Why did she blame everyone for her actions in her trite book?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why do people with trauma easily recognize other people with trauma through eye contact?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What are some of the best photos of your favorite Korean model?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.